Here Are Some Ways to Make the Bedroom Even More Fun

Making your bedroom a bit more fun is on many couple’s minds recently, thanks to being stuck home day in and day out. For couples, the bedroom can often become a place where consistency takes over. If you have a TV in there, that can distract from bonding with each other and make you feel less sexy. You want your sleep haven to be a place to relax and unwind, but you also want it to be the place where you and your partner can have some adventures and enjoy each other’s bodies. If you’re looking for some ways to make the bedroom more fun, here are some simple ideas to try.

Make small changes.

Why no trying to sex up your bedroom wardrobe? One of the easiest ways to spice up your bedroom is to put on some sexy lingerie. Bear in mind that lingerie does not have to just be for your spouse — it can also be a treat for yourself. Feeling beautiful in your own skin is a confident booster and that confidence will be very attractive to your partner. You can go as casual as finding a matching bra and panty set, a babydoll nightie, and maybe a little bit of lace, or go big with a corset or a teddy and garters. Whatever you feel comfortable and great in. Whether it’s a thong or just special panties, lingerie should a celebration of your body — curves and all — so be sure you get some lingerie that makes you feel hot.

On top of dressing up, you can also try some other new things such as getting it on at different times in the day. Many couples enjoy trying out a new room in their home for a change of scenery. Maybe on the stairs or the washing machine. Even mixing it up a little bit can go a long way.

Sense it out.

There is nothing sexier than playing with your partner’s senses. We all know that if one sense is lost the others become heightened, so use those heightened senses to your advantage. Try blindfolding your partner and you’ll find that the lightest touch will get them going. Try to keep intense eye contact without breaking your gaze. Playing music can set the mood and command your body to perform to the melody. Light some scented candles or partake in a bubble bath together. Use different textures to heighten the sense of touch. Silk ties can do the trick as well as a differently ribbed vibrator.

No is a full sentence.

Even though the word no may sound like a turn-off, many people find pleasure in banning the regular old activities. As a couple, you don’t have to say no forever, but even a short period of time can make all the difference. Try new positions and ban the old ways. It can also be fun to make rules and to break them. If you are looking to feel more connected why not try to make a rule that you can only climax together? It’ll feel super sexy to know that certain things are forbidden, which will cause the passion to heat up between the two of you in the bedroom.

Say yes to toys!

Sex should be fun, and experimenting with sex toys can be a way to bring newness and unlock realms of pleasure you never knew you could reach. Being open to new ideas allows couples to communicate better and sex toys can be a huge part of that. There are so many kinds of sex toys, you’re sure to find something that gets you curious. Maybe you want to try anal play or penetration, so you get yourself a wearable dildo and a harness. You can choose from a plethora of items — a wearable dildo, cock ring, or vibrator perfectly aligned to hit your G-spot are just the tip of the iceberg. Whatever you pick should be something that you are comfortable with and find pleasure from. There are so many great special guests you can welcome into your room that it could be a hard decision. Try going shopping together and each picking out a toy for the other to use. If you are feeling super naughty you can always invest in a sex swing. Playing together is the best part of sex, so get curious! And don’t forget to have fun.

Julia Barber

Editorial Intern

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